5 Ways to Stay Connected in Your Socially Distant World

I know, I know, you're completely sick of hearing the phrase "social distancing", but it's been about seven months, and it's still here. Honestly, it may never go away, so I guess we're just going to have to deal with it. The real problem is that the phrase "physical distancing" should have been the one to stick. Social distancing ourselves is not helping our relationships, our mental health, and our families. Physical distancing, especially for those who have low immune systems, is what we should be focusing on, yet still maintaining the relationships that we have.

I think it has come to the awkward stage now where everyone is uncertain who is done with social distancing and who wants to continue. This can apply to masks, hugs, or simply being in a private or public gathering. So, here are some ways to break the ice, keep relationships going, and reach out to people even if we are uncertain of their social distancing requirements. 

1. Send a Card: I know this takes effort because you need to buy stamps and cards, but who doesn't love receiving snail mail? You don't need to write a book to someone, but simply send them a card saying that you are thinking of them, praying for them, and hope they're doing well. (I don't know about you, but I know I have cards around my house that I could send)!
2. Phone Call: I'll start out by saying that I'm a hypocrite on this one because talking on the phone is one of my least favorite things to do, but for all of you who enjoy talking on the phone, here you go! (Don't worry, I do have a handful of people that I'm okay with talking to on the phone). Give someone a call, hear their voice, let them hear yours, and just see how they're doing and talk about whatever. 
3. Send a Text: (This one fits me better). It may seem easy, but sending someone a text to say "hi" and let them know you're thinking of them may brighten their day! You could even send them a text to see if they are free to chat sometime to avoid getting voicemail. Include emojis and make the text even more fun and heartfelt!
4. Be Social on Social Media: It's easy to like people's status updates, pictures, or check-ins, but social media is for interacting, so I encourage you to try to be a little more social. If someone posts a cute picture of their kid or pet, tell them so. If someone posts about an accomplishment, congratulate them. If someone posts that  they're struggling, let them know that you'll pray for them. It only takes a couple seconds, and is a better than just liking their post.
5. Do Something: My final suggestion, if you're comfortable, is to go out and do something. If you want to see someone, just be honest about how you're handling social distancing. Mask or no mask? Inside or outside? How many people are you comfortable being around? Discuss your boundaries, and get together. I think you'll be surprised at how refreshing this option could be for your soul and your relationships. 

I know there are many other creative things that could be done, but here are just a few. Take care of yourself physically, but take care of yourself emotionally and relationally. Keep on living no matter what!